Source: Martha Stewart Weddings
Emily Post’s first book about American manners and etiquette was published in 1922 under the title Etiquette and is now on its 18th edition, written by the original author’s great-great-grandchildren. This go-to guide to all forms of social, business, and wedding decorum has produced some real cornerstones of etiquette advice that have been passed on from one generation to the next. While each edition is a genuine reflection of its publication date, there are a few tidbits of advice that have stood the test of time. And yet, there are some passages that are downright laughable by today’s standards.
Old School: The Hope Chest
Traditionally, this collection would’ve been accrued by a mother over her daughter’s lifetime. The most recent iteration of this would be a cedar chest filled with bed linens, towels, tablecloths, monogrammed handkerchiefs, etc., all to be handed over to the bride as a wedding gift. Though even this version is a bit outdated, as most brides register for those items now.
In the original 1922 version of Emily Post’s book, she recommends “her mother buys her, as lavishly as she can, and of the prettiest possible assortment of lace-trimmed lingerie, tea gowns, bed sacques and caps, whatever may be thought to be especially becoming.” This in particular probably wouldn’t fly in the 21st century, but it’s pretty hilarious to think about your mom stuck in Victoria’s Secret trying to figure out what a bed sacque is! [Read more…] about Old-School Wedding Etiquette: From Outdated Advice to Timeless Tips